4th Sunday of Lent (C ) 30 March 2025 Contrition
The Prodigal son returns home, expecting to be scolded for his wastefulness, but in fact is lavishly welcomed.
Thus we learn of the sinner’s need to repent; of the sinner’s hope of receiving mercy; of God's eternal desire to give mercy, and to restore the sinner to full status.
The process begins with the son realizing his degraded position. The move to repentance begins with an awareness of the damage that sin can do.
This is not yet full repentance but inclines one to that position. It may be only a kind of self-awareness. How could I have been so foolish as to get into this mess?
The son addressed his first problem: how do I get to a better place than where I am?
He was not yet seeing things from the father’s point of view. He felt only his own pain, not that of his father.
This parallels what the Church calls Imperfect Contrition. Our sorrow for sin is real but not yet complete. We are sorry mainly because we have put ourselves in trouble and are afraid of what consequences might follow.
It is a start, however, and one which enables further progress to be made.
The son, having got himself home, then experienced the welcome he did not expect. He was not even sure that he would get a position as a servant. Instead, he was treated like a prince - which we all are, insofar as we are God's children, and He is King.
Was the son grateful? We can hope that his experience of mercy would compel him to stay on the right path for the rest of his life. When we realize how much we have been rescued from, we can promise God we will never forget His blessings (eg The Lord remembered us in our low estate, for His mercy endures forever; Freed us from our foes, for His mercy endures forever; And gives bread to all flesh, for His mercy endures forever. Praise the God of heaven,for His mercy endures forever.” — Psalm 135 (136) and many other psalms).
We foster the gratitude which God deserves, and which we need to express. We are grateful to God, and grateful also for those who prayed for us while we were ‘away’, or while our consciousness of these matters was very hazy.
Eventually we can come to Perfect Contrition, whereby we are sorry for our sins, now for the extra reason that we have caused pain to our Father. We have offended His infinite majesty. We are more concerned for Him than for our own plight. That is a more generous position to hold.
This is what Our Lord wants us to become - sorry for all sin, and for the grief it causes to Almighty God (and all the company of Heaven).
We become more loving towards God as we interact constantly with His goodness.
This is what we are called to - not just ‘keeping the rules’ but learning to love the One who is the source of all blessings.
God has programmed us to be receivers and givers of His charity, directed outwards to others.
We can renew our sorrow for past sins. We do not have to re-confess them, but we can express our gratitude to God for past mercies, and for the grace not to offend Him again.
We say it all the time; let us say it especially today – Lord, have mercy!